Monday, December 29, 2008

Planting Trees in Paradise

Well, I made it!! I'm in a "far-off land" :) Check out the new link below to see a running blog of my adventures in Bangladesh.

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry CHRISTmas!

I would like to start out saying: never (if you can prevent it anyway) plan to take a large trip to a far-off land two days after Christmas...these past weeks have been a little overwhelming to me. All the people to see, things to bake, suitcases to pack, lists to make, not to mention just the mental preparation of venturing to new worlds...*whew!*

Thankfully, I am in a place in my life where December 24 & 25 themselves are not too busy. A quiet evening with the family last night and a late afternoon get-together today at my grandparents is about the extent of Christmas celebrations. This is giving me an opportunity to do some quiet time reflections on this special honoring of my Savior's birth into this world. My favorite moment about this holiday is Christmas Eve night, with the snow silently falling, and remembering the moment of His birth. How honored I am that He should do this to save me from my sins!

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

15 months

15 months of marriage! I can honestly say that it has truly flown by. One of our wedding presents was a journal to document the miracle of marriage. I sat down the other night to document and realized that I haven’t documented much. :) Not to say because there has been no miracle—because there has—but because there is so much that happens, it’s hard to keep up with all the documentation!

My best friend told me that she realized after a year or two of being married that she actually loved her husband more than when she had first married him. Being that I’m not really a “hopeless romantic” I remember thinking, “okay, whatever.” But, even in just these first 15 months of being with my best friend, I now am realizing what she meant. This truly is the miracle of marriage: that I love my husband more today than I did the day I married him.

How does this phenomenon occur? I cannot explain it. Maybe it comes from the teamwork spirit we have in working through issues. Maybe it comes from all the shared experiences we have. Maybe just from being in the presence of one another most all the time! Whatever it is? It truly is a gift from God to experience a love that represents His love for us—one that grows each and every day.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

breathless

Do you ever get the feeling that life is moving along so quickly that you don’t even have the time to catch your breath? I’ve been pondering that fact lately…how it seems as though life is moving at such a pace that I don’t even have time to realize it! I sat with my graduate school advisor yesterday to map out the next year and a half of my life. I have mixed feelings of “why so much longer?” and “that fast!?” (I plan to be done in April 2010).

Family members are growing up and getting married, children are being born (& growing up), grandparents are aging, friends’ lives are transitioning…all of these major life events are occurring and I don’t feel as though I’m showing enough interest in all of these occurrences. Having the time to ponder my own life and family seems to be exhausting enough, so reaching out to all others appears to be a momentous task at this moment in my life.

So, I want all my friends and loved ones to know how much I truly think of and pray for you. You are all near & dear to me in so many ways—and are never far from my thoughts.

Having said that, my life will continue on with work, graduate school, church, veterinarian appointments…and now will throw in my brother coming back home and most likely moving in our upstairs bedroom again, the holidays, and a trip to Bangladesh.

God is good! :)

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

puppy saga

where to begin? life has continue to move along at a blinding pace this fall--my lists of "things to do" never appears to get shorter...and now I have a list going for Jason too... I guess that would be the left braininess in me. ;)

But, what I truly sat down to update everyone on was the health status of our dog (or puppy as we so affectionately call our 140 pound "child"). I've shared on and off in the past year his various ailments--UTIs, ear infections, skin infections. Well, a few weeks ago we were able to take him the the MSU vet hospital and get a full diagnostic workup as to what may be going on within him. During this process, a spunky, young veterinarian student discovered a heart murmur. What does that have to do with his frequent infections, you ask? Absolutely nothing. But, what it did mean is that they couldn't do some of the tests that they had originally wanted due to now being unable to sedate him. All we were left with was a simple blood test option.

Longer story made short...Harley is officially allergic to every grass found in Michigan, some tree pollen and weeds, and beginning to show signs of allergy to dust mites. Nice. A dog who is allergic to grass... :) So, short of cementing in our entire yard and never letting him play at the park again, we will begin allergy shots in our 8 year old (ie almost 70 year old) dog.

A note to those of you who are reading this and scoffing: I probably would scoff too if it not that I've truly become a dog person and I really think you can't empathize with our situation unless you too are a dog person. :) So, just love us for who we are and know that we are taking care of one of God's special creatures!

Sunday, October 19, 2008

wedding!

last update was a baby...this update is a wedding! Yesterday, my cousin, my sister, was married. And what a fun day it was--not to mention how beautiful the bride was. :) Here are a few pictures from the special day...the rest of my life has consisted of nothing outside of work, school, and church. There are moments I feel completely overwhelmed by it all, but then my wonderful husband goes and gets the groceries, walks the dog, and cleans the entire house...and then I know I couldn't make it all happen without this special man by my side!

Thursday, October 2, 2008

baby girl


oh how sweet to hold a newborn baby...especially a baby girl! My best friend gave birth on September 30 to a tiny little 6 pound 14 ounce peanut named Anna Olivia. I seriously don't think I've ever seen or held such a perfect little baby--she is absolutely beautiful! I cannot wait to see what awesome things are in store for this precious babe.

do I sound like a proud aunt or what? :)

Friday, September 12, 2008

september

I told myself once school started, I'd have more time to blog a little...now I realize I'm almost halfway through September!

Work has definitely kicked into gear--the kids made us hit the ground running! I suppose it's a good thing to know that they know where to come seek help for all that ails them, but it sure has made for an exhausting couple of weeks. It'll be a good year though--we can all sense it.

Then my graduate classes have started up as well--and both of those are going to be a LOT of work. Luckily most of it are just small assignments and readings, but every week there is something new to work on. And one class is on Professional Leadership--so already I've learned awesome things about setting goals for myself in my career and life. Lately I have felt a little out of touch with my passions in life, so I'm excited for how this class can put me back in touch with that.

The other stuff we're dealing with right now is more health issues with our puppy...we're working on skin infection number 4. It's to a point where one vet has suggested seeing a dermatology specialist for dogs! So, our first step is just to get a second opinion as to what may actually be going on with him. He really does have a high pain tolerance, but it's pretty obvious he's not all that comfortable in his itchy skin. :(

so, that's the latest on Prospect!

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

one year of marriage!

yeah for us!! What a great year too...I'll do some reflection on it in another posting. But for now: we celebrated in style! We were married on Labor day--so we celebrated as such. Spending a gorgeous weekend up in Mackinac, including a night on Mackinac Island (more pictures posted on my facebook page).

today, the actual day of our anniversary, began with a 5am waffle breakfast together. :) It was about the only time we will see each other today as Jason has class and I have choir rehearsal this evening. ahh...marital bliss...loving every second of it!

Friday, August 22, 2008

circus

so I've decided that I'll put a positive spin onto the drama of my job: no longer will I approach it as exhausting politics and manipulations, but rather, it's a circus! Everyone has their own little area of showmanship and displays and my job will simply be the ringmaster--just making sure everyone has their job done correctly (ie, serving the students & their families) and yet in the end is having fun and smiling or laughing about something.

Ever heard the phrase, If we didn't laugh about it, we'd cry? That, my friends, will be my mantra this year.

Angry parents, frustrated students, exhausted staff, tough administration...this is my life as a school nurse in a high school health center. So, finding the little things to laugh or smile about are that much more important in keeping the circus in proper function. :)

Thursday, August 14, 2008

summer 2008

so it seems as though I took a blogging hiatus...I didn't really mean too...but my life has just been full. And every time I took a peek at my blog (or, I should say, my friends' blogs) I just didn't have the energy or organized thoughts on which to write.

So, to update from my last post:
1. my grad class is done, in which I received a grade of "A" (nothing short of a miracle I think)
2. We purchased a used 2001 Dodge Intrepid to get Jason to & from work and school.
3. We got new carpet in the family room that looks exactly like the carpet we had back there...apparently I don't have a knack for decorating. :)
4. We have not yet gone on a camping trip--but I'm still hopeful!

One wouldn't think that the 3 (or 4) things listed above would create a full life...but everyday, something new pops up to keep us busy. Friends visiting from out of town, a shopping trip with my mom, beaches to visit, rooms to clean, errands to run, groceries to buy...and then the Olympics started and it amazes me how that can occupy your time as well! ;)

So, yes, summer 2008 has been a good one. I feel relaxed and at peace. Ready to go back to work next week? I'll be honest: nope, not in the least. But, I will...because I do love the kids, and that is who I'm working for. :)

One more moment in my life: I spent a couple hours today at the Lake Michigan shoreline. It was beautiful: peaceful, perfect temperature, a good book, a little snooze--one of my best summer moments. On the way home, I popped in a CD and sang (loudly) along with Philips, Craig, & Dean:

Lord, I wish I could praise You with adequate words
But You leave me speechless
And I so long to sing You the song You deserve
But it would be endless
I long to move Your heart
To bring You something new
To tell how great You are
Till my praise to You
Is like an ocean breeze blowing on your face
Like a summer sun with its warm embrace
Like a gentle rain plays a symphony
That's what I want my praise to be
Like a fragrant rose in the early spring
Like an eagle soars when it spreads its wings
Whatever, Lord, You may need from me
That's what I want my praise to be
To You
Everything I could give, You already possess
Lord, I'm so unworthy, yeah
I'm just one of the millions to stand and confess
And yet still You hear me
Your heart is open wide
You long for what I bring
I pray somehow You'll find this simple offering...

Monday, July 21, 2008

summer vacation

okay, I know I have the majority of my summer as a vacation from the daily grind of my career in school nursing...but, last week I would consider my official summer vacation. I could do a lengthy narrative to tell all that has occurred in the last week and a half, but I think it best to do a few lists in summary:

the good:
1. I spent 6 days in the northwest corner of the state--one of my most favorite places in the world :)
2. I spent 6 days with my church friends and family--people I love dearly
3. I spent 6 days working at a kids camp--not nursing--but helping lead singing--almost just as fun :)
4. We went mini golfing, wine tasting, tubing down the Platte River, totally relaxed, and in general, enjoyed one another's company
5. I got to eat s'mores & pudgy pies (i.e. hobo pies) around the campfire
6. I did no grad school work and actually read a novel
7. I took a couple naps

the bad:
1. I spent 5 days away from my awesome husband
2. I got a bad summer cold
3. My childhood "dad" passed away after battling cancer (my parents' neighbor)

upcoming:
1. Grad class done in a week
2. Purchasing a "new" car (I think Dave Ramsey would be proud)
3. Purchasing new family room carpet prompted by the monsoon rains of a few weeks ago...
4. Hopefully a camping trip with my awesome husband :)

that pretty well sums it up for now...life is good this summer!

Monday, July 7, 2008

4th of July

Our weekend was a mixture of busyness, relaxation, and productivity...it began last Thursday when Jason had all four wisdom teeth taken out. I was a good nurse and wife and made sure he had plenty of SpongeBob to watch while he recuperated, but by Thursday night he was feeling fine and was eating leftover pot roast...

So, Friday rolled around and we were able to have breakfast with my family in the morning, make visits to both sides of his family out in Holland, grill out with friends that evening, and then take in the downtown GR fireworks that night!


Saturday we took it a little more easy and while Jason worked on some homework, I went and floated out on a lake with my mom, aunt, and cousin. It was a fun couple hours of bonding for us girls. Saturday night Harley was able to hang out with his friend Emmet. :)

Now, we're back into the swing: lots of homework before I head to a Michigan Association of School Nurses retreat the end of this week and then off to camp to help with our church's mission work up in Northern Michigan.

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

buddies

okay, so I don't have a human child yet...but I really am quite content at the moment with my canine "child." :) Awhile back I mentioned that some friends of ours were the proud new parents of a pup. It has been a privilege to watch him grow thus far, and also watch our more mature child revert to his puppy ways when the pup in around.

Okay, I'll explain that a little more clearly. Since our wedding last September, we have had to take Harley to the vet at least five times now. Various infections keep finding their way into his body, and we're to a point now where we will probably have to give him benadryl twice a day the rest of his life due to what the vet finally decided is probably allergies. According the chart in the vet's office, our 7 1/2 year old "pup" is actually more appropriately aged to be about 60+ in human years. He definitely moves a bit slower (especially after a long bike ride), enjoys a soft, cushy spot to lay, and I've even caught him out lying in the sun on the back deck.

But, his new young new buddy, Emmet, has been good for Harley. They wrastle & tumble together like two pups should. Harley has had to let Emmet know who is boss a couple of times, but Emmet takes it all in stride and comes bouncing back for more. :)
chillin in the backyard

"in action" photo--wrastling around

whew! time out & water break :)

Friday, June 20, 2008

lots of stuff

So, here I thought I would have a nice, quiet, relaxing summer...ha! :) Well, in actuality, my summer is still going to be pretty low-key. But so many exciting things are going on, and will be going on by the end of 2008, that it seems almost like too much fun!

First, my best friend will have her first child in October. I could likely be an aunt to a little niece, which would totally be an answer to my "secret" prayers... ;) Second, my best cousin/sister of my heart will be getting married in October as well. It has been so fun to walk the road of relationships together throughout recent years, so it will be even more fun to continue that journey together into the most important relationship(s) we have ever entered into... Not to mention the fun we will have in the "planning a wedding" process! ;)

Third, I will be taking mission trip to Bangladesh with a small group from my church at the end of this year. With the loving and truly encouraging support of my awesome husband, I will be venturing into a foreign land to meet and show God's love to the people of the churches in that country that are supported by our church. I will most likely get to use my nursing skills in my most favorite way--through education and teaching regarding health matters. Oh, it doesn't come as a shocker that I'm a bit nervous about this trip, but I truly feel that God has laid it on my heart to go. I've already asked Jason if it would be okay to pack one of the orphan children in my suitcase to take home... ;)

Wow...God is such a great God. It will be a blessing to watch the rest of 2008's adventures unfold...

Sunday, June 15, 2008

finally!

summer has officially begun for me! School let out on June 6, but I spent most of last week busy with wrap-up stuff and beginning stuff down at camp. So, Friday evening was the first official evening of my summer break in my book. :)

What are my plans, you ask? Pretty much anything and nothing...I plan to wake up every morning, take puppy for walk, and decide what to do with my day. I have grad class homework, home repair projects, yard work, books to read, beaches to lay on... :) I really hope to have a low-key, non-eventful summer.

I think I'll start out this week with a Sunday afternoon nap...

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

a sad farewell

I said good-bye to my car on Monday night. We've been together for 2 1/2 years--good years, fun years...

A couple months ago, Jason & I decided that Dave Ramsey was right--life would be much more fun had we less debt. :) So, in taking steps to eliminate debt, selling the Escape would be beneficial. We posted it on craigs list (my new favorite website, by the way) and stayed firm on our asking price. People have shown interest, but it wasn't until last week that someone decided he would pay what we were asking. After completing paperwork, etc. he drove off with my fun 2002 red Ford Escape.

*sigh*

You know, at first I was really sad about it, but I've realized something in the past week: it is more fun to know you don't have a car payment. (could Dave Ramsey be right??) And, there is kind of something freeing in only having one car! With gas prices being what they are and me being conveniently out of school for the summer, we've decided to take our time looking for a "beater" car. Jason will ride his bike to work, we have generous parents and friends who have offered use of vehicles if needed, and overall right now, we're kind of enjoying it!

With things on the horizon such as wisdom teeth removal, home repair projects, vet bills, and the like--God has blessed us right now with the sale of this vehicle. So, I may not have my dream car anymore, I know there are bigger dreams that God is preparing us for!

Thursday, June 5, 2008

with the girls

Last weekend was a fun-filled weekend in Chicago with my girlfriends from church. We had such a great time! Friday night we drove to Chesteron and stayed at the Spring House Inn where we totally relaxed and enjoyed the hot tub. Saturday morning we took the train into downtown Chicago and thoroughly enjoyed all the sights & sounds admist the beautiful weather! We took the train back that evening--and were able to enjoy the action-packed drama of the "Transit Tazer Incident." (which is our fancy name for watching about 10 loud, drunk, young men get arrested for public drunkeness) :) On Sunday we drove into Michigan City and spent some money at the outlet mall. We really had a great weekend and are already looking forward to planning our next trip together.

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

jury duty

how fascinating! A couple months ago I got a jury duty summons in the mail. Jason was thrilled for me--I--not so much. If picked, I was to serve the very last week of school. A very busy week, to say the least, and then to have to be stuck sitting in a room in the courthouse downtown? Well, I filled out the paperwork, all the while believing I probably wouldn't even have to worry about it...

boy, was I wrong.

Last Friday evening (on my way to a fun-filled Chicago weekend), I get a phone call to remind me that I had been chosen for jury duty to begin on June 2. Shoot. So, some last minute phone calls were made to co-workers and my supervisor, and I found myself sitting in a room in the courthouse in downtown GR. But, quite actually, I didn't have to sit around that long. The jury clerk was a totally type A personality drill sergent and kept things moving right along. Long story, short, I should have bought a lottery ticket yesterday, because my name was chosen for everything!

My "term" should be completed tomorrow--and although it has made for a very busy week, I have found it to be quite a fascinating experience!

Wednesday, May 28, 2008

camping

We spent a beautiful Memorial Day weekend up at Interlochen State Park in northern Michigan. Reasoning behind the chosen location? A Beer & Brat Festival at Crystal Mountain--one of our new favorite places to go. :) We chose to borrow a pop-up camper from some friends; honestly, I originally wanted to borrow it to convince Jason that it was time for us to upgrade from a tent, but in the end, left me wondering why I wanted to go away from a tent! silly girl brain... :) Overall, neither one of us have been convinced either way and are still in the discussion phase of the whole debate.
However, the weekend was beautiful. We had fun, rode bikes a little, walked trails a little, and relaxed a LOT. Jason was diligent and got some homework done; every time I pulled out a book to study for my class, I ended up falling asleep. Like I said...lots of relaxation. ;)


Beer & Brat Festival

oh wait...I guess my boys did take a little snooze... :)

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

anniversary

I’ve been wanting to blog on this for awhile, but the date came and went without any fanfare from me. On May 11 I celebrated the seven year anniversary of being a home owner. It really amazes me—I don’t think if you had asked me if I would still be in it even five years from then I would’ve said yes. Wow. I remember it being such a huge, major decision in my life. I was in the middle of switching jobs when I applied for the mortgage, I had no idea what all the fine print meant, I really was all about the bottom line monthly cost and the fact that it was going to be a good thing that I wasn’t “throwing money away” into renting somewhere.

The idea was planted when a friend and I were renting a house (for very cheap) from a lady who was going to be selling the house upon her six month return from Arizona. We loved the house and it would have been very convenient to continue living there if I was able to afford it. Unfortunately, her asking price was not in my pre-approved mortgage budget. It was about then that my loving family got super involved and began giving me all kinds of loving advice as to how to proceed with my life concerning home ownership. I say loving because they do love me, but at the time it was maybe more smothering…

Needless to say, it was my grandpa who was doing drive-bys in neighborhoods on the northeast side of GR and told me about the house on Prospect. I had already looked at several houses within my limited price range and was getting rather discouraged with the level of disarray most of these houses were in. But, ever hopeful, I had my realtor set up a visit to this one. Upon walking in, I was greeted with the overwhelming smell of cigarette smoke. Nice. The owners had already moved out a few months before, so the house was empty, but their scent still lingered. I pressed on though, and knew the second I walked into the roomy, sunny family room in the back that this house needed me in it. The other bonus (compared to the other houses in my price range) was the fact the bathroom was actually nice! I had fallen in love.

To make an already long story a bit shorter, I took a vacation in there, and upon my return was able to make an offer on the house. On May 11, 2001, I signed the closing papers.

Since that date, I have had four great roommates rotate through, two dogs, and one husband. I have had several fun parties, but also scary moments. I remember wanting to do and change so much within and around the house, but only time & finances determine what I’ve been able to accomplish. I’ve heard the phrase that a home’s walls should “speak of laughter.” Well, reflecting back on all that has occurred within the walls of this home on Prospect in the last seven years, I can most assuredly say that they would speak of joy.

Now that is a prospective-life. :)

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

conference!

whew! Made it through the MASN conference last week. I think I'm finally coming down from that "high." Everything went very smoothly and we all had a great time! It helps to be working with not just one, but two great friends and co-workers. We definitely work well as a team and even though I've been officially elected as MASN's vice president, I wouldn't even have considered the position without the promised support of these two wonderful gals. :)

Char looks tired...Ann looks stressed...
...but we're all smiling in the end!
Now I jump right back into the swing of things with my summer grad class already having begun and approximately 17 more days of the working school year left! wa-hoo!

Monday, May 5, 2008

family & fun

What a fun weekend! It began Friday evening when we headed to Jason’s cousin’s house for a fondue party. I really didn’t know what to expect—I’ve only met his family a couple of times and I’ve never really eaten fondue. Well, it turns out that both fondue and his cousins are very fun! Fondue included three courses—a cheesy appetizer, a vegetable broth main course, and the yummy chocolate dessert.

Jason & I realized quite early on in our relationship that our families are very different. He is an only child and even though he has several first cousins, they aren’t as close as say my family who can be a bit too close at times… :) So getting to know his family has been a long-term kind of project as get-togethers are pretty infrequent. Even so, when we were together Friday night, I honestly felt as some of them were my long-lost cousins…well, I guess in essence they are my cousins now, but we had so many things in common it really was kind of cool! Two of his cousins are nurses—one even graduated a year ahead of me from Grand Valley. Being a VanDenBrink now seems a lot more “concrete.”

Then, the other fun news from the weekend was some friends of ours becoming parents…to a puppy! We’re so excited for them and can’t wait to have Harley and Emmet meet sometime soon. With most of our friends becoming parents to children—something we can’t quite relate to yet—it is fun to have the opportunity to share some of our parenting puppies “wisdom” with them. I wish them blessings in their parenting journey!

Thursday, May 1, 2008

prayer day

May 1 is the National Day of Prayer—and 2008 is probably the first time I’ve ever truly recognized it. I’ve learned in recent months of my life that prayer is a necessity; I mean I’ve always known it’s important, but it truly has become a necessary part of my day. A good book that I continuously read is The Power of a Praying Wife. I say “continuously” because I read it through once and knew that I would have to carry it with me to read it over and over again whenever I get a spare moment (usually a short lunchtime). I have found that it not only makes me feel closer to my Heavenly Father, but also to my husband. I think about him more throughout the day, saying short little prayers, and then much better able to understand his side of things when it comes to life.

I used to keep a prayer journal; I haven’t been so good at that as of late. But perhaps this day is being brought to my attention as a way of God speaking and reminding me what an important tool this is as well.

In a creative team meeting at church the other week, we were talking about how to teach people to pray. Some people think that prayer is something that happens as a quick little recitation before eating a meal. However, prayer should be and is deeper than that—especially for a Christian. It is a conversation between a person and their Father. It is a moment between the souls of a Creator and His beloved creation. Thanking, praising, asking, seeking, sometimes even begging…but most importantly, listening. God speaks to us continually, praying can be a moment that I listen and speak back

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

smiling

I seem to have been a little discouraged sounding as of late, so I wanted to share on a bright day. The grades for my grad classes were posted today and I got an A- in the theory class (that I hated so much) and an A in my assessment class (thanks, hon!)

And, plans are falling together for the MASN conference next week. To be held at the beautiful Crystal Mountain resort, I'm most excited because my husband and my best friend's husband & boys will be joining us--making it kind of a mini "vacation" for all of us. I'm just praying for good weather now! :)

Friday, April 25, 2008

grown-up

Do you ever feel like being an adult is an out-of-body experience? There are times, particularly in recent months, where I feel like I’m still about 21 and trying to live the life of a 31 year old. There may have been dramas and such during my college years, but they usually blew over quickly and then supplemented with many fun memories of hanging out with friends and traveling and such.

Now, “drama” is the not the word I would use to describe the stressful events in my life. Words like “pressure” or “anxiety” are ones that better fit the life of an adult. Situations like managing co-workers, family tensions, children, aging parents, aging bodies! All of the above lead to a daily stress level that makes it necessary to actually plan and schedule in times of relaxation, or as I like to call it: decompressing. :)

Life has lulled a little right now with my two grad classes done for the semester and the summer one not starting up for a couple of weeks. The break came just in time for me to gear up for the big state school nurse conference that I plan and is scheduled for May 8 & 9. I do enjoy planning this conference and it’s nice to be able to come home and get stuff done without having to worry about homework.

I’m looking forward to this weekend and fully decompressing from a pressure-filled week. Also remembering James 1:2-4, “Count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”

Friday, April 18, 2008

earthquake?

what's all the fuss? apparently at 5:37am (EST) this morning there was a 5.4 magnitude earthquake in southern Illinois. There were some that awoke to trembling lampshades and closet doors, but before they really could comprehend what was maybe happening, it was over...and now, because it's a slow news day, it's making headlines all over the midwest in the area it was felt. such drama! ;)

on a positive note: I feel I can safely say that spring has sprung here in Michigan! Today is sunny and 75 degrees--it's wonderful!

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Discouragement & Leadership

I can't take credit for the following meditation--but it is one that means a lot to me. -rjv

Kings 19:9-11 9There he went into a cave and spent the night. And the word of the LORD came to him: "What are you doing here, Elijah?" 10He replied, "I have been very zealous for the LORD God Almighty. The Israelites have rejected your covenant, broken down your altars, and put your prophets to death with the sword. I am the only one left, and now they are trying to kill me too." 11The LORD said, "Go out and stand on the mountain in the presence of the LORD, for the LORD is about to pass by."

Our work can be very challenging. We give everything we have to the business, to our families, and to the building of God’s kingdom in our lives and can still come away exhausted, overwhelmed, endangered, fearful and alone. That’s what happened to Elijah. God had just used him to call down fire from heaven in a spectacular display for divine power. But Elijah’s experience of great triumph was soon replaced by death threats, exhaustion and discouragement. It seemed like too much for him, and it was.

So God intervened. God confronted Elijah about what he was doing away from the assignment God had given him. God removed Elijah from activity for a time so that he could rest and spend time with God. During that time, Elijah experienced again a quiet time of God’s provision, God’s incredible power in wind, earthquake and fire, and God’s instruction about Elijah’s role and his leadership. God’s instruction came not in a loud spectacular way, but in a still, gentle voice.

God’s instruction to Elijah contains lessons for us about the leadership roles we find assigned to us. First, its wrong to think we are alone in the task. God provides others who are pointed in God’s direction, and He expects us to engage them. Part of the leaders role is to accept responsibility for developing a strong team and for succession planning. When we’re listening, He gives clear direction about the roles to be filled and who can fill them.

Circumstances can overwhelm, leaving us disoriented to God and feeling alone. We can get to the point where our focus is no longer on God, but on all there is to do. Let God take you aside so that you can be comforted, encouraged, and can listen for His quiet voice. He will provide exactly who and what you need to prepare you for what comes next.

Sunday, April 13, 2008

lazy days

okay, so usually lazy days applies to summer...but this weekend qualifies as well. It really is just a good ending to a nice spring break. Hanging out with my husband & puppy, watching movies, going out for lunch, taking naps...it really is nice.
I probably did not get as much cleaning done as I would like, but the following did get accomplished:
1. Final paper written for nursing theory class.
2. Basement pantry cleaned out & organized with many things brought to Goodwill & Mel Trotter (it always feels like a "weight loss" when you get things out of your house, doesn't it?)
3. Piles of back magazines read & then recycled.
4. Walks with puppy.
5. Piles of laundry washed AND put away! ;)
6. Plenty of relaxation time...

Now Sunday--I always call it my decompression day as I prepare for the upcoming week and all that it will entail...

Thursday, April 3, 2008

spring break!!

I've never been so excited to stay home for 10 days. :) That's 10 days of sleeping in, taking puppy for walks, cleaning/organizing, and just time to breathe.....

I'm sure it will fly by and I'll wonder where the time went, but for now it is a large expanse spread out before me, ready to be filled with whatever activity my heart desires for that day, hour, or minute. It will be wonderful! and, if the weather report stays accurate, it may actually feel like spring around here too!

ahhhhh.... :)

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

no foolin'

the end is in sight...in less than 48 hours, I will be on spring break!!!

I survived the four performances of our easter drama and last night's praise team rehearsal...now I get a break from church until Sunday! imagine that! ;)

What shall I do with my time you ask? Well, I have one more night of thrilling parent teacher conferences and a couple more exciting days at work...but Friday I plan on getting a massage, and Saturday is play time with one of my "nephews." And homework will also take up some of my time, as my classes are not quite yet done.

Life is good...and that's no foolin'. ;)

Thursday, March 27, 2008

March marathon

This week has been like a marathon. It began Sunday with lots of choir singing for Easter morning services; then onto Jason’s family’s house for an Easter dinner. Sunday night I had to cram in a nursing theory assignment that I should’ve gotten done earlier, and then jumped into a stressful Monday. This is the kind of stress that makes me question, yet again, why I ever decided I could be a manager. I miss being just the school nurse! *sigh* this too shall pass.

Evenings of this week have consisted of rehearsals for our church’s upcoming Easter musical. Yes, it is after Easter, but our community looks forward to it every year. So, with rehearsals every night (with the exception of tonight, where I have to sit through 3 hours of parent teacher conferences), and performances Friday, Saturday, and two on Sunday…life has been literally been a marathon.

The end is in sight though…it’s called spring break!!!

Friday, March 21, 2008

Good Friday

Normally, every Friday is a good one for me as it signals the end of a long and typically busy & stressful week. But this Friday is a special one as it is a day of remembering the hugest act of love one person has ever done for me. My Heavenly Father committed his Son, my Savior, to death on a cross so I could have eternal life in heaven with Him. What wondrous love is this!!

I have spent some time in reflection on this today, and often reflection for me includes music. The following are the lyrics to the song that has most touched my heart and through which I have heard my Savior speak to me today. Remember there is only ONE place to finding true peace--in the arms of Jesus!

Voice of a Savior sung by Mandisa
Some people try to listen to the bottom of a bottle
Some people try to listen to a needle in their arm
Some people try to listen to the money in their pocket
Some people try to listen to another's arms

You and I are not that different
We got a void and we're just trying to fill it up
With something that will give just a little peace
All we want is a hand to reach to
Open arms that say I love you
We'd give anything to hear
The voice of a Savior

Some people try to find it with blind ambition
Some people try to find it where no one else has gone
Some people try to find it in the crowns of victory
Some people get defeated and lose the strength to carry on

Some people try to find it in the shadow of a steeple
Some people try to find it in the back row pew
Some people try to find it in the arms of Jesus
That's where I found it, how about you?

You Tube video of song

Thursday, March 20, 2008

SPRING!

It finally arrived!! And with beautiful, sunny weather too! I’ll just ignore the fact that we’re supposed to get 1-3 inches of snow tomorrow…

My house is so dirty right now I can’t really decide where to begin on my spring cleaning. With life having been so busy these past few months, it’s really gotten away from me. And those who know me best (i.e., those who have lived with me), know that I don’t do well with clutter, dust, and dirt in my home. Even Jason commented the other day on the quality of cleanliness in our home. I just pointed out the piles he needs to clean up in the backyard. ;)

I’m excited to tackle some cleaning, it’s always so inspiring to get stuff put away where it belongs—particularly if you are into nicely labeled Rubbermaid totes for your storage. ;) I will be spending some time on this long weekend to vacuum/wash/dust, but I’ll save the bulk of it for my upcoming spring break. Of course, my class isn’t quite done yet, so the key will be not using the cleaning that needs to be done as a procrastination technique…I’m very good at that!

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

new name

So, yesterday someone apologized because they hadn’t changed my last name on a document. It made me realize that I think I’m not fully used to this new last name of mine. I don’t even have a second thought when I see my full maiden name in print, and when I see my “new” full married name, I still kind of do a double-take and honestly think—wait—who is that again? Oh—it’s me!! :)

Silly, but when you’ve had one name for 30 years of your life, it’s kind of an adjustment to get used to the new one. When we got married, I wasn’t sure if I was going to change it. Jason had no opinion really, and everyone in my professional life knew me best by my maiden name. Options I considered were either keeping my maiden name in the profession realm only, or even possibly the whole hyphenated last name thing. It wasn’t until I was sitting in the secretary of state office that I made my final decision: to change it to VanDenBrink. I knew I had to do it for myself—hanging on to name for sentimental reasons would not have been good for me.

I really loved my last name, it was very unique with very few people actually able to claim that name in the United States. I could “hide” my Dutch heritage behind the name as well—being that it came from across the border of Germany. :) Sure, I always had to spell it for everyone, but I was used to it. Interestingly enough, I still have to spell my last name! It surprises me how apparently difficult it is to spell VanDenBrink; and evidently, not everyone who has the last name capitalizes the V, the D, and the B. What’s up with that?

So, there you have it. A brand, spanking new, Dutch last name, that is looong, AND difficult to spell. Someday I’m sure I’ll appreciate the upgrade. ;) I’m kidding of course; adjusting to this new life path has been amazing!

Friday, March 14, 2008

crunch time

happy birthday to me!! well, as of yesterday, anyway! :) Yesterday I was initiated into the age category of "early 30s" No longer at the milestone of just 30, I'm now 31. I'm surprised at how this suddenly feels so much older than I thought it would be. Good thing I have a best friend who is 32 and a husband who is 28. One reminds me that being older is not so bad and the other keeps me young. ;)

It was a good day all around--I felt I made some good accomplishments at work, then dinner with my family, then a nice walk with husband & puppy in the warming spring air. It was a nice day!

Now, today, crunch time begins. I have a nasty paper due in my nursing theory *gag* course tomorrow. This will make for an interesting day. Luckily, the weather will keep me from being too cranky as it is sunny and suppose to warm up to 50 degrees today! yeah for SPRING!! :)

Thursday, March 6, 2008

cracking hearts

I love this picture. About five years ago, two of my friends were pregnant at the same time. Alessa came first, on March 17, and William was two months later, on May 24. Through the years, lives get busy, people move--but we have all tried to stay in touch and revel in the joy of watching these precious children grow. Alessa & William were the first "neice" and "nephew" of my heart. It has been an honor to be dubbed "auntie" by them and their siblings--most likely because of the knowledge it will be a loooong time before it happens for real through my brother. :)

These two don't get to see eachother very often--but when they do, they seem to click and have great fun playing together. According to William's mom, earlier that day she had told him he would see Alessa that night. From that moment on, he carried around his digital alarm clock, hoping the numbers would soon show 5-3-0 (the appointed time). At one point, he couldn't stand the wait anymore--and began crying to his mom: "I can't wait anymore! My heart is cracking!!"


Ah, from the mouths of babes. :) His cracked heart healed, 5-3-0 eventually came, and a good time was had by all.

Friday, February 29, 2008

leap day!

Happy leap day to everyone! At work today we talked about how this should actually be a recognized world-wide holiday as a vacation day. Since we are getting "caught up" with our trip around the sun, we should also get "caught up" on things that may be lacking in our lives--namely, rest!

Here in Michigan it's just one more day to add to our record breaking month of no sun and lots of snow...I'm ready for March!

oh, and happy birthday to my brother, who is in Korea and as of right now is already in March--celebrating his birthday I hope! :)

Thursday, February 28, 2008

funny story

No, I did not write this letter, but I did have to chuckle out loud! :) --rjv

Dear Tech support,
Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a distinct slowdown in overall system performance, particularly in the flower and jewelry application which operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0. In addition, Husband 1.0 uninstalled many other valuable programs, such as Romance 9.5 and Personal Attention 6.5 and then installed undesirable programs such as NBA 5.9, NFL 3.0 and Golf Clubs 4.1. Conversation 8.0 no longer runs, Housecleaning 2.6 simply crashes the system. I've tried running Nagging 5.3 to fix these problems, but to no avail. What can I do?

Signed,
Desperate

DEAR DESPERATE
First keep in mind Boyfriend 5.0 is an Entertainment Package, while Husband 1.0 is an operating system. Please enter command: ithoughtyoulovedme.html and try to download Tears 6.2 and don't forget to install the Guilt 3.0 update. If the application works as designed, Husband 1.0 should then automatically run the applications Jewelry 2.0 and Flowers 3.5. But remember, overuse of the above application can cause Husband 1.0 to default to Grumpy Silence 2.5, Happy Hour 7.0 or Beer 6.1. Please note that Beer 6.1 is a very bad program that will download the Snoring Loudly Beta. Whatever you do, DO NOT install Mother-in-Law 1.0 (it runs a virus in the background that will eventually seize control of all your system resources). Also do not attempt to reinstall the Boyfriend 5.0 program. These are unsupported applications and will crash Husband 1.0. In summary, Husband 1.0 is a great program, but it does have limited memory and cannot learn new applications quickly. You might consider buying additional software to improve memory and performance. We recommend Cooking 3.0 and Hot Lingerie 7.7.

Good Luck
Tech Support

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

concept analysis of my life

Can one person do too much? I'm testing this theory...I may have to even do a concept analysis on it (an inside joke with myself...). Right now in my life I have the following to keep me out of trouble: work as a school nurse, plan an annual conference for Michigan Association of School Nurses for both this year and 2009, two graduate level nursing courses, sing in church choir and be in easter musical, and be a loving, encouraging, and supportive wife to my wonderful husband.

The highlights: being a wife is definitely right up there! But my work as a school nurse and all that that encompasses (MASN) is really exciting. I love being a part of something so big--not only touching the lives of my students and families, but also working within the state-wide organization of MASN as it works to improve the standards of school nursing practice.

The lowlights: one of my grad classes is really getting to me. Nursing Theory is such an incredible stretch for my "live by the rules" personality; words like "phenomenon" and "empirical referent" and "concept analysis" are all completely abstract to me. I've never been good at arguing--much less arguing for concepts I barely understand! My only light in this tunnel is the topic of my research paper; I chose to investigate Reactive Attachment Disorder. Many of you may not know what this is--but if you really want to know, just shoot me an e-mail and I can have you proof read my paper once it's written. ;)

So, there you have it, Rachel's life in a nutshell right now. All I can say is, God must have big plans for me, cause I'm feeling very stretched!

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

ho-hum

I do believe the winter "blahs" have set in...officially. We are on our way to record-breaking amounts of snow this winter. Great! if you love snow, but not so great if you love the sun. I'm thinking warm sunny thoughts of summertime--vacations, sleeping bear dunes, camping--it tends to warm me up inside. :)

We celebrated our first Valentine's day as a married couple with little fanfare. Neither of us wanted to join in the mass of crowds, so we ordered to go (one of our favorite things to do lately), and cozied up on the couch to watch DVD episodes of Seinfeld (another one of our favorite things to to do). He gave me a CD I had been wanting (has anyone heard Mandisa?! she's awesome!) and I gave him a Life Is Good t-shirt. It was a good evening.

Grad classes are keeping me very busy and slightly overwhelmed, but so far I'm managing. Jason is keeping busy, but managing quite well so far, his three courses. Overall, life is chugging right along without a whole lot of fanfare or excitement right now and that's okay by me!

Monday, February 11, 2008

seriously?!

I couldn't believe it, Jason woke me up this morning to inform me I had snow day! I couldn't believe it--I had to check the listings myself. WOW! okay, so normally, when one complains, they still don't always get their own way...but my last posting complained of snow, sun, & sick. While we still have the snow (which I previously mentioned I don't mind too much), today we have SUN! and I get a break from all the sickees!! My goodness. :)

It is very cold today, but the sun is out for now, and it's beautiful. Harley and I are enjoying the coziness of home, while I'm just purely thankful!

Harley loves watching for squirrels from the warm house... :)

by the way--this is the ONLY piece of furniture Harley is allowed on... ;)



Thursday, February 7, 2008

snow, sun, & sick

I feel the need to complain a little bit…first off, snow is a wonderful thing, but only for awhile. As of yesterday, Western Michigan got dumped on with about 7 inches of snow. And of course, the school district I work for felt it necessary to be open anyway. Our snow blower is currently on the fritz, so shoveling is the only option. I’m pretty sure we’re going to be shoveling until the end of April.

Honestly, I really don’t mind snow, but what I do mind is the no sun that accompanies Michigan winters. We literally have not seen the sun in well over a week. That is much more depressing to me than the large amounts of snow piled up along our driveway. I’ve begun the battle of winter blahs. It begins in the morning when I have to force myself out from under the fleece sheets and down blanket. By nighttime, I’m ready to crawl back under them about 8pm.

And, the other grumble I have right now is being surrounded by sickees. Obviously it is a job hazard, one I cannot avoid, but it makes me so nervous that my body may succumb to it as well. Flu season has definitely begun and I’m doing my best to avoid it. Vitamins, orange juice, exercise, going to bed on time…I pray that I may be spared!

*whew!* thanks for listening…I feel a little better. :)

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

snow day again!

You know it's a messy day in West Michigan when over 500 schools & businesses are closed and the state police are telling people to stay home if at all possible. Crazy! With wind chills down below zero and the snow blowing & drifting--it's a great day to be wrapped up in a robe, under a blanket, with your coffee and a good book. Or, in my case, a textbook. :)

Gotta love Michigan!!


Tuesday, January 29, 2008

poor puppy

so, more drama with our puppy. I know it's not the same as having a sick child--which many of my friends deal with--but it can be just as bothersome. The loss of sleep, the doctor visits, the giving of medication...all the joys of a sick member of the family. :) Harley is now dealing with an ear infection. The vet put him an antibiotic, a steroid due to inflammation, and an ear drop. It's tons of fun--especially all the side effects of the steroid! For those of you who aren't familiar with this particular drug, it's side effects include lots of water bowl filling and frequent trips outside. It's great fun! :P

However, it is good to see him on the mend as he was pretty miserable all weekend. This too shall pass!

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

snow day!

Have I mentioned how I love the fact I work for a school district? One of the perks is the occasional "gift" of a snow day! I know every day is truly a gift from God, but I'm pretty sure that snow days are gift wrapped with a beautiful bow... ;)

A cozy morning wrapped in my robe & a blanket, sipping coffee on the couch is the perfect way to begin. And now, after a good long workout on the treadmill, I can begin whatever project I decide to accomplish with my free day. And, honestly, I don't have too much option other than to work on grad class homework. I have plenty to read for both classes. And one class has quite a bit of on-line work to keep me busy as well.

Hmmmm...maybe I'll make another pot of coffee... :)

Thursday, January 17, 2008

michigan humor

In anticipation of the "artic blast" we're supposed to get this weekend...here is a little Michigander humor:

MICHIGAN TEMPERATURE CONVERSION CHART

70 and above: Texans turn on the heat and unpack the thermal underwear. People in Michigan go swimming in the Lakes.

60 above: North Carolinians try to turn on the heat. People in Michigan plant gardens.

50 above: Californians shiver uncontrollably. People in Michigan sunbathe.

40 above: Italian and English cars won't start. People in Michigan drive with the windows down.

32 above: Distilled water freezes. Lake Superior's water gets thicker.

20 above: Floridians don coats, thermal underwear, gloves and wooly hats. People in Michigan throw on a flannel shirt.

15 above: Philadelphia landlords finally turn up the heat. People in Michigan have the last cookout before it gets cold.

0: People in Miami all die. People in Michigan lick the flagpole.

20 below: Californians fly away to Mexico. People in Michigan get out their winter coats.

40 below: Hollywood disintegrates. The Girl Scouts in Michigan are selling cookies door-to-door.

60 below: Polar bears evacuate the Artic. Michigan Boy Scouts postpone "Winter Survival" classes until it gets cold enough.

80 below: Mt. St. Helen freezes. People in Michigan rent videos.

100 below: Santa Claus abandons the North Pole. Michiganders get frustrated because they can't thaw the keg.

297 below: Microbial life no longer survives on dairy products. Cows in Michigan complain about farmers with cold hands.

460 below: All atomic motion stops (absolute 0 in the Kelvin scale). People in Michigan start saying, "Cold 'nuff for ya?"

500 below: Hell freezes over. The Lions with the Super Bowl.

Thursday, January 10, 2008

good books

I’ve read a couple of really good books recently. On our trip down to Tennessee, there was a billboard in Kentucky announcing a store that had 20,000 books for under 5 bucks! I couldn’t speak I was so excited! So, being the wonderful husband that he his, he got off the next exit and brought me to this magical bookstore. :) After browsing for awhile—I picked out a couple of good Christian Fiction (my favorite!) that looked liked they would be a good read. Often, when I do this—that is just pick out a couple of random books—I get a little nervous that I may have wasted money. (I really need to visit the library more often…) But, there are times when I pick out winners—books that will stay on my book shelf to be read again in the future. This was one of those times!

Winner #1: Room of Marvels by James Bryan Smith
If you’ve ever read The Five People You Meet In Heaven, and enjoyed it; you will love this book as well. It was a beautiful and powerful look at what Heaven could be like. I loved it! Jason even witnessed me crying at the end—always a sign that I enveloped myself in the storyline. :)

Winner #2: Beyond the Blue by Leslie Gould
This is an emotional and beautiful story about two women, one an American who lost her mom in the Vietnam war and one a Vietnamese who lost everything but her mom during the same war. The story brings their lives together when the American woman decides to adopt children from Vietnam. The Vietnamese woman becomes a mother who chooses to give her children a better life than she can provide. You can only surmise what the resulting storyline is—a poignant look at international adoption from both the birth mother and adopting mother’s points of view. It became one of those books I could barely put down!

I love finding good books—especially those that seem to touch my heart and mind in some way. For now though, it’s back to boring old textbook reading...

Monday, January 7, 2008

honeymoon & the new year

Hello in 2008! The year is off to a great start. Our honeymoon was better than I ever thought my honeymoon could possibly be! Our cabin nestled into the Smoky Mountains was beautiful and we thoroughly enjoyed our surroundings of Gatlinburg, Tennessee. I’ve posted a few pictures below.


the beautiful Smoky Mountains


Gatlinburg Aquarium "Tennesea"


beautiful!





our favorite spot "in" the cabin ;)

Now it is back to the “real” world. *sigh* It hasn’t been too bad though. We finally were able to put our signatures on the closing papers of the Holland house (wa-hoo!); my two grad classes and Jason’s three college courses start up this week; and we celebrate Jason’s 28 years of life today. :)

Yup, 2008 is starting out with many blessings.